How Spicy Are You? Quiz

Take this quiz with your friends or flatmates and compare scores. Who’s mild? Who’s extra spicy? Be honest… we won’t tell (but your score might).

How to Play:This game has multiple rounds—do as many or as few as you want. Perfect for pacing yourselves or ramping things up. This game is meant to be fun, lighthearted, and pressure-free. Everyone has different boundaries, experiences, and comfort levels—and every score is valid (including not wanting to answer questions). Always prioritize consent, communication, and mutual respect, and remember that safe sex helps keep everyone healthy and happy. Check in with partners, know your limits, and keep conversations open. Play smart, play kind, and enjoy the spice.

Once everyone’s done, you can add up your individual scores and compare them to how many rounds you played. Each round has a maximum score of 15, so the total possible points depend on how many rounds you chose (for example, two rounds = 30 points total).

If you’re feeling brave, add everyone’s scores together, divide by the number of players, and compare that group average to the total possible score for the rounds you completed.

No math required if you don’t want it—but if you do…the average never lies…

Round One:

Give yourself 1 point for every item you’ve done. 

1. French kissed someone?

2. Given or received a hickey?

3. Been on a date?

4. Been in a relationship?

5. Played a game that involved stripping?

6. Gotten flirty or explicit over video chat?

7. Sent or received a spicy text? 

8. Watched or read porn?

9. Masturbated to a picture or video?

10. Given oral sex?

11. Received oral sex?

12. Used a sex toy with a partner?

13. Seen a stripper?

14. Had a booty call?

15. Done something sexual in a car? 

Round Two: 

Give yourself 1 point for every item you’ve done. 

1. Had a one-night stand?

2. Caught feelings when you definitely weren’t supposed to?

3. Kissed someone you just met?

4. Hooked up with a friend?

5. Hooked up with a friend’s friend?

6. Gone back to an ex?

7. Had a “we said we wouldn’t” situation?

8. Kept something secret from the group? 

9. Sent a risky text and immediately panicked?

10. Broken one of your own dating rules?

11. Been involved in a “situationship”?

12. Had chemistry you absolutely couldn’t ignore? 

13. Stayed the night when you swore you wouldn’t?

14. Thought “this is a terrible idea” and did it anyway? 

15. Woke up and said, “Well… that happened”?

Round Three: 

If you’ve done the deed in any of the places below, add 1 point for each.

1. On a couch?

2. Over the kitchen counter?

3. On a balcony?

4. In front of a mirror?

5. In a body of water? 

6. At a party (while it was still happening)?

7. In a bathroom that wasn’t yours?

8. In a hotel room?

9. In or on a car? 

10. At a friend’s house?

11. In public? 

12. Outdoors but not planned at all?

13. At your parents’ house?

14. Somewhere you definitely could’ve been caught?

15. On the beach? 

Round Four: 

Give yourself 1 point for each thing you’ve tried.

1. Used a safe word?

2. Negotiated boundaries beforehand?

3. Used handcuffs or restraints (real or improvised)?

4. Tried edging?

5. Role-played?

6. Tried power play (dominant or submissive)?

7. Pegged someone or been pegged?

8. Gotten food involved? 

9. Experimented with temperature play? 

10. Brought feet into the mix?

11. Tried a kink you learned about online?

12. Discovered a new kink by accident?

13. Made a sex tape?

14. Been on a leash—or leashed someone else?

15. Used a flogger?